12th house

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Well I like H12 synastry... (but my h12 ruler is in h7) At first its very confusing, and you do have to sit and figure our self out..
Not everyone can or will do this. As yes its very difficult.

With H12 synastry there has been some secrets.. From one person to another, OR secrets they share together.. 
I guess how the planets in H12 are aspect ed make the difference..

The thing I notice the mos

t and the spiritual connection is when both of these two are together.. They are in their own little private world.. That no other person can understand or get.Only those two are allowed in and understand their world..
You know its not reality.. but this other world just feels so right..
You know you live in reality, but you cant wait to go to the other world with this person... Its a whole new level of deepness..

My suggestion is not to run from H12 synastry ... IT may be hard, but its very deep and spiritual.
You will never be the same afterwards.

SATURN

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***The 12th house, by it's nature, is always a slippery concept to cope with and any planet which is overlaid by this house tends, in its response, to reflect this amorphous quality. Saturn will tend to feel an unconscious tug in this house which is not entirely pleasant. The house person will be perceived as someone to whom the Saturn person has a kind of karmic debt, an unavoidable obligation, which must be paid even if the price is unwelcome. Even a normally assertive and confident personality may feel disarmed by the house person if their Saturn is overlaid by the 12th, almost as if some of the structural firmness of the Saturn person's self-image is weakened by the presence of the other person. Still, there is a deep pull in this response which leaves the Saturn person often unable to avoid the demands of the house person. How the house person responds to this depends largely on how much compassion and integrity they possess, a synastric analysis problem for us to solve. Clearly, if the Saturn person is in a position to be badly used or exploited, we should try to point this out and create an awareness of this vulnerability.

-EW Neville, Planets in Synastry

My 12th house in SCORPIO

Scorpio in 12th House | 12th House Scorpio

By Hindu Astrology10. December 2011 13:10

A person with a twelfth house Scorpio is usually reserved about his strengths or energies. Such a person keeps his thoughts and energies concealed from the others. This is because of the fact that a person with a twelfth house Scorpio understands that these energies are those which give him the sheer determination to move steadily forward and to overcome whatever obstacles may stand in the way of a more successful and productive life. Such a person usually does not have the guts to face a situation which presents more than a challenge. Hence, a person with a twelfth house Scorpio often tends to avoid difficult situations and rather finds the easy way out.

A person with a twelfth house Scorpio is fortunate as he will always have the support of people who are influential and worthwhile. Such a person should understand that most of the important things in life need to be won and hence, such a person should try to fight for them. Giving up would only decrease his opportunities throughout his life. If a person with a twelfth house Scorpio is willing to pay the price for the important things in life, he will surely have them one day or the other. Such a person can enjoy the luxury of being shy once he has what he was longing for.

The presence of a twelfth house Scorpio can be related to hidden secrets and beliefs which can be associated with matters of mystical or spiritual nature. Such a person is likely to proclaim views on these subjects that are very orthodox, outwardly shunning ideas that are vague and without form. A person with a twelfth house Scorpio is actually fascinated by such issues. But, he usually keeps them to himself. The presence of a twelfth house Scorpio suggests power at the subconscious level. Such a person can transform and affect many people by saying and appearing to do little in an obvious way. Yet, such a person’s thoughts are always profound.

With the presence of a twelfth house Scorpio, the main source of problems is jealousy. Many problems are related to jealousy in the presence of this placement. A person with a twelfth house Scorpio should try to learn and control this sort of a negative feeling. With time, such a person begins to understand the problems associated with this emotion. He will also learn how to handle those associations and acquaintances who have the same problem. Such a person needs to take care of the early years as he will learn to control his emotions with time and there wouldn’t be much problem then.

A person with a twelfth house Scorpio may be afraid of his own subconscious power. Such a person may even attempt to control it too harshly and face some problems. A person with a twelfth house Scorpio should learn to vent out some of these feelings in order to be satisfied. Such a person is always able to see the details that others might have overlooked. Such a person also knows how to develop talents in other people. A person with a twelfth house Scorpio can be destroyed because of secret resentments and hidden affairs. 

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1. Realize that it’s okay to make mistakes. Just make sure to learn from your past mistakes, forgive yourself and move on.

2. Make your health and wellness a top priority and always take care of yourself so you’re ready to take care of others.

3. Follow your own path—not one that others want you to follow.

4. Find the humor in life and laugh like there is no tomorrow.

5. Relax and move with the flow of life by being unafraid of change.

6. Be adventurous by trying new things and taking more risks.

7. Have more intellectual curiosity and embrace creativity.

8. Try to find happiness with as many different people as you can.

9. Think for yourself instead of letting other people’s opinions influence you too much.

10.Try not to judge people before you get to know them.

11. Be thankful for what you have now instead of thinking about what you don’t have.

12. Wish well upon everyone equally and try to admire without envy.

13. Share your happiness with others instead of hoarding it all for yourself.

14. Don’t try to change someone—love who they are now.

15. Enjoy the journey, not just the destination.

16. Know that happiness is bigger than any bank account.

17. Control negative thoughts so that they don’t contribute to the outcome of your life.

18. Use your energy wisely because spending energy complaining, worrying or being impatient is just wasted energy.

19. Be bold. Find the courage to change things that should be changed and accept that there are some things that cannot be changed.

20.Love your work. If you don’t currently love what you do, figure out what you would love, and take the first step toward that life.

21.Turn your discontent into a mystery and enjoy trying to solve it.

22. Face problems from different angles in order to find solutions.

23. Gain independence by realizing that on this earth we are all dependent upon each other.

24. Change your perspective by taking on a wider view of things.

25. Don’t waste time trying to bring disagreeable people around to liking you.

26. Become the person you would like to spend the rest of your life with.

27. Be honest with yourself and others by saying what you mean and meaning what you say.

28. Treat people with respect and compassion.

29. Live in the now by loving the present and being aware of your thoughts and actions. Think happy thoughts and speak powerful words.

30.Try not to put things off until later.

31. Never hold grudges.

32. Face your fears head on and try to do the things that you think you cannot do.

33. Spend time with people who make you happy while also not depending on other people for your own happiness.

34. Stand up for yourself and others and don’t let anyone or anything hold you back.

35. Be yourself and love who you are now.

36. Be a participant in life rather than an observer.

37. Do the things that you love to do as much as you can.

38. Write out a list of goals and achieve them by doing them step by step. Don’t give up when things get difficult.

39. Do something every day that makes you feel proud of yourself—commit random acts of kindness whenever you get the chance.

40. And always keep on moving forward.

I know it seems like a rather large list of things to take on, but you can accomplish a lot on this list by doing just one thing. For example, right now as I’m typing this I’m putting into practice at least 18 things.

Put these things into practice and see where life takes you, without regrets. And please comment below. I’d love to read your thoughts on this.

Before you go—one of the things I don’t want to regret is not helping friends when they need me. I’ve recently set up a blog to help a friend of mine who is in a tough situation. I’ve learned that if you are in a position to help someone you should try, and so that’s what I’m doing. Check it out if you want to help, too.

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Jenny Nichols is a 21 year old dedicated to committing random acts of kindness everyday to try to improve upon herself while making the world a better place at the same time. You can read her blog here: http://mariashelpers.blogspot.com.Photos here and here. /blog/40-ways-to-live-life-without-regrets/

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